You just need the next step.
If you're anxious about that, you're not being dramatic. You're reading the situation correctly.
Getting laid off is not the end of a career. Sometimes it's the most interesting turn in one.
I came back at nearly double the salary.
I spent a month living in London and traveling Europe first.
I've already lived a lifetime and grown in ways I couldn't have predicted.
My career has let me travel the world and build a life that works for me.
I want you to leave here believing that's available to you too.
The five year plan is dead.
Five years is long enough to earn another full degree. In a world of self-driving cars and AI coworkers, who's confident enough to say what anything looks like in five years?
With the right perspective and a few small deliberate actions, you can absolutely control your choices — and build a career that keeps you engaged through every phase of your life.
You won't be the same person in five years that you are right now. So why should your career be?
Now I work wherever I want, and I've lived in different parts of the country and the world.
I wasn't a great student. I wasn't good at electrical engineering and it never came easy to me. But I loved my computer science classes. That was the first real spark. I knew a lot more about what I didn't want than what I did.
Two reasons. One: they were willing to hire me, unlike the flashier names I applied to. Two: they'd pay to relocate me. Software is a huge world — picking what kind of engineer to be is like picking a major all over again. Consulting bought me time and exposure while getting paid.
The first time I doubled my salary. I want to be clear about how it happened: I doubled it by telling someone I was interested. That's it. That was the whole strategy.
Two years building a team and an architecture from nothing. That was the foundational moment of my career — and I would not have been in the room for it if I hadn't had lunch with a friend.
Going public was electric. It was also the first time I managed a team through a lot of anxious questions I couldn't fully answer. Then my whole team was laid off when the company changed direction on ML.
I did it anyway, because I wanted to know what it felt like to be in the driver's seat. I learned an enormous amount. I also learned I wasn't passionate enough about the industry we were in. So I ran the experiment, got my answer, and moved on. No drama.
Something genuinely different. I gave myself two years to find out if product was for me. At the end of two years I had my answer: I missed engineering management. So I went back to it.
Eight stops. Three of them happened because of a person. None of them were on a plan.
The woman who graduated from this school with an EE degree she didn't love would not have understood a single word of my current job title.
That's the whole point.
Let's separate the realities from the ghost stories.
Changing is not the same as closing. The difference between those two things is where your whole career lives.
You wouldn't try to survive in a desert using techniques you learned in a rainforest. Step one is learning the environment you're actually trying to succeed in.
Employment for workers aged 22–25 in the occupations most exposed to AI, relative to where it would be if it had kept pace with older workers in those same jobs.
It's happening through reduced hiring. Companies aren't firing junior people. They're not opening the roles in the first place.
That's a real problem, and it's the one you're feeling.
The declines are concentrated in jobs where AI substitutes for what a person was doing. In jobs where AI complements the person instead, employment is flat or growing.
The question is not whether you work near AI. The question is whether the work you do is the kind AI replaces or the kind AI makes more valuable.
Your job is to build tacit knowledge faster than the old timeline assumed you would.
Up about 15% — while job postings overall have gone down. The market is recovering.
Both things are true.
of 73 majors the NY Fed tracks. Computer engineering, around $90,000. Computer science right behind it.
Working a job that doesn't require your degree.
The degree didn't stop working. The front door got harder to open while the building kept growing.
Those are different problems. The second one is solvable.
Everything happening in AI runs on hardware that somebody has to design, and on power that somebody has to deliver.
Not enough people who understand electronics, RF, embedded systems. About a third of that gap is engineers with four-year degrees.
An industry that expects to be tens of thousands of engineers short — in precisely the disciplines taught at this college.
of AI data centers will be constrained by power shortages by 2027.
The entire AI buildout is now bottlenecked on the electrical grid.
That is an electrical engineering problem. It is enormous, it is urgent, and there are not enough people to solve it.
Not everyone thinks this buildout is a good thing. Right here in Delaware, data center demand is part of why electricity prices have gone up, and there's legislation in Dover right now about who should pay for it. Some of you may have real objections — environmental, political, or both. I'm not going to tell you those objections are wrong.
If you don't believe in something, don't spend your career on it.
If you think it's being done badly, that's a reason to go work on it. The people who fix a problem are usually the ones close enough to see it.
Just make it a choice instead of an accident.
When someone tells you the market is bad, the right response is —
I am not hiring anyone to write syntax.
That used to be a real category of junior work. It's the biggest change, and vague reassurance is worse than honest difficulty.
That's a higher bar than the one I had to clear in 2013. I won't pretend otherwise.
The distance between learning something and having built something has never been shorter.
I don't have magic bullets. What I have are techniques I spent a career learning, and what I see from the other side of the hiring table.
Be open to opportunities you hadn't considered. Trying something is not the same as committing to it forever. You do not have to land the perfect job out of the gate. Almost nobody does. I certainly didn't.
That flexibility is what gave me options. Neither answer is wrong — just be real about how yours changes the math.
Not a hint. Not a subtle nudge you hope somebody picks up on. Not a ten-page case you build before you'll say the thing out loud. Ask.
The worst outcome is a no — and a no tells you where you stand. Silence tells you nothing.
You are, by definition, the most recently educated people in the room on a lot of this technology and the theory underneath it. For those of us already in industry, keeping up happens on top of a day job — or on top of unlearning old habits.
You have real knowledge right now, even though it doesn't feel like it, because it doesn't come with a job title attached yet.
Things with an actual end, that actually work, that somebody other than you could use. Use AI tools while you do it — and pay close attention to the moments where the tool confidently hands you something wrong.
That noticing is the skill.
It has never been cheaper to build something real. What would have taken a team and a year can now be done by one person in a few weeks. Raising money is a different story and harder than the headlines suggest — but you don't need funding to build something, and a thing you actually built and shipped is worth more in a conversation with me than almost anything else on a resume.
The more technical and automated this industry gets, the more human connection matters.
Referrals are the skip-the-line ticket in a sea of thousands of keyword-matched resumes. But you can't cold-email a hundred recruiters asking to be recommended — everyone can smell it. Referrals come from community, and community is built on genuine relationships.
Put me in the room where I built my first ML team. I didn't meet him strategically. I just liked how he managed people.
The startup. The first thing I ever did without a guaranteed paycheck.
Agilent, up the road in Wilmington. One still works there thirteen years later. The other built a management career and now leads bigger teams elsewhere.
You never know where the opportunities come from. You only know they come from people.
Be good to them now. Not because it pays off later, although it will — because this work is a lot better when you're not doing it alone.
You don't need the whole map. You just need the next step.
Or tell me about something you're working on.
The whole map.
Thirty minutes, three sections, fifty-one steps — all at once, for the first time.